Sometimes, people makes mistakes. It's always easier to forgive and forget. If they do learn from it, it's good. If they do not, then it's their loss. It's their life, they rule it themselves. We're in no position to interfere. Even if they are out to destroy themselves, we are not obliged to help them. It's their choice and they have made that choice. Sometimes, it's just the way things are. We cannot make sure everything is on the right path, going according to the way we wanted it to be. There's always a 'subjected to change'. That's just how it is. That is also why we will never trust anyone 100% and no one will trust us 100%. One moment you could go right, the next you could go left. Nobody can stop you and nobody actually cares unless it affects them.
Some people keep things to themselves, some decide to share it. It's their choice too. Nobody has the right to force it out or decide for them. Some things from the past affects permanantly, some don't. Everyone got their own story to tell, everyone got their own story to keep. Some are told while some are better left untold. No one will ever truly understand anyone's story. No matter how they put themselves in others' shoes. They can't say they understand. Because they won't, unless they have experienced it for themselves.
I have no idea why I'm typing like this. When inspiration comes, it just won't stop. It keeps flowing and I have to get it out of my mind. Therefore, TADAA. Two paragraphs of words. It might be very confusing but the main point is...
You can't change someone's life. Cause you don't know their story(personal or not) and you don't know why they're acting that certain way. All you can do is to listen in silence and maybe give them a hug.
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